In search of my'self'...

moon_aurora
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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Lecturer
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
Lahore
Country
Pakistan
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
I currently divide my time between the place where my family lives and my working place, both of which require myself to be in two different cities each week. I love where I work, but, I yearn to be where my 'home' is ... and then often times a light strikes the eye where I try to find the vision of my partner with whom I can 'make' myself a home; a husband whom I can love, cherish, honor, and have family with. And, as everyone's dream I also want my best friend in my husband. Although taught, and now myself teach, to question generalizations, I do think that this is one generalization that stands true - that essential loneliness is the biggest tragedy of mankind - it follows thereby that everyone wants someone who can "witness" their life through thick and thin out of the scores of people who will not stand to do that for him/her in this world ...
That said, I am always challenging myself to explore opportunities in the art of Life, because I think that everything is possible if man is determined. So, I value what I get with hard work. What I have gotten without working for it, I raise myself to deserve it, since I believe that Allah has His reasons for everything He lends us. I also believe that at least in this world Allah will not punish the wrongs done against Him, but He will those done against people.
I am much open to the wonders of the world, and its experiences, so I love to kick back and relax with my family (the most beautiful and the most important people in my life), and also believe in the bliss of travelling (with the right people), and in the bliss of being close to nature. Thus it must be done where it is possible, and where it is required by one's own soul. To be inspired by different places and its food (including the best chocolate cake and coffee there) is a dream ... I like watching movies (mostly Hollywood), and have a deep interest in Literature. I must be very good at my subject because a year back when I was still doing my M. Phil., I was immediately hired as a permanent faculty member by my Department. It is also from here that I did my Masters and for six months now hold M. Phil. degree passed with 3.44 CGPA.
P.S. I also know how to cook (for those who are wondering).

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What I Am Looking For
When writing about myself I think that the lines of writing about both converged. It might probably be because of the work I came here to do, i.e. register myself for marriage, but I also think it's because whoever he is I don't see him as much different in thought and person as myself. Deep; also light hearted when it comes to ordinary things in life (and to myself, recently as in many a time in my life, every worry except religion seems ordinary); and fun loving, as this beautiful world is created for us to enjoy.
Someone who understands, or is willing to understand that Forgiveness is the key to finding Allah within one's hearts, and that love will consume if one does not learn to forgive. Someone who understands that language is capable of harming as it is for creating the narrative of a person. But I also believe that one cannot fix future. God knows that I am far from perfect, and so I cannot say much if I already haven't done that. Allah knows what's better for us and we all turn to Him for help. "With each other's help, may we be turned into what is beloved to Creation." Ameen.

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
Pakistani
Country of Origin
Pakistan
Willing to Relocate?
Internationally
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
up to 15k
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
Yes
Do I have children?
No
My Living Arrangements?
I Live With Family
Country
Pakistan
County/State
Lahore
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.60m (5' 3")
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Masters degree
Subject I Studied
English Literature
Language
My First Language
Urdu
My Second Language
English
Work
My Profession
Lecturer
My Job Title
Permanent Lecturer in a leading Public Sector Uni.
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
No
Beard
Prefer not to say
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Usually